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Want to know how to tell someone you are not interested? This post is for you.
Rejecting someone can be a tough decision to make. Fortunately, as a relationship expert featured in places like HerNorm and Ideapod, I’ve covered breakups and disinterest. I’ll teach you how to say no nicely and how not to be a nice guy who finishes last.
Are you ready? Let’s begin.
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How To Tell Someone You Are Not Interested Nicely
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Sometimes, it doesn’t work out between you and someone else. Maybe the romantic interest isn’t there, relationship problems arise, or you aren’t a good match. If that’s the case, the right thing to do is tell them you aren’t interested.
However, there’s no easy way to handle rejection. You could seriously harm a person’s feelings, even if you are a Mr. Nice Guy. If you want to learn how to tell someone you’re not interested nicely, here are some helpful tips on broaching the subject in the gentlest manner possible.
Here are 7 ways to tell someone you’re not interested nicely:
Step #1: Be clear with yourself about the reasons why you are not interested.
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Before you voice your disinterest, you should make it clear to yourself the reason why you’re not interested. The last thing you want to do is cause someone emotional pain by giving them a half-baked answer. Is it because there’s no love or romantic feelings between you two?
Was it formerly a romantic relationship, and now it’s become a toxic relationship? If you want it to be clear to them you’re not interested, it should be clear to yourself first.
Step #2: Consider what you are going to say and how you are planning to say it.
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Once you’ve sorted out your feelings, it’s time for you to figure out what you want to say and how you will say it. Are you burning that bridge completely, or do you want to stay long-time friends with them? Carefully consider what outcome you want… and how you will break the news to them.
If you still want to remain their good friend, try not to use aggressive language that will upset them. If you’ve done all that, then all that’s left to do is begin that conversation with them without breaking eye contact. Good luck.
