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When to say I love you for the first time may be one of the hardest decisions to make when it comes to relationships. You may have seen all the signs you are in love or know how to tell a girl you love her, but when is the right time?

Sites such as UpJourney and Outwit Trade have featured my works as a relationship expert and life coach. With my expertise, I am no stranger to the dilemma of when to profess your love to another person.

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When To Say I Love You For The First Time

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The only perfect time to say I love you for the first time is when you are ready and feel you are on the same page regarding your feelings. For some people, dropping the L word is no big deal; they can say it out loud easily, while others, mostly women, take their time before saying it as they consider it a relationship milestone.

Taking your time before declaring your loving feelings through these three words doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t love them. Reasons may vary, from past relationships, scared of getting hurt, or from the fear of rejection, to name a few.

If you already have an answer to the question ‘am I in love with her?’ and if you already know how to tell someone you love them, then it’s time to look into when is the perfect time to say I love you to her.

Sign #1: When you suspect it’s mutual.

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Saying I love you is quite scary. And this is because of the fear of rejection or unrequited love. But if you sense that your actions out of true love are reciprocated, your words of admiration get positive responses from her, and the feeling is mutual, don’t live in fear. She might just be waiting for you to say I love you first.

Sign #2: When you are ready to go exclusive.

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Are you tired of the dating game and want to get more serious with your girl? If the answer is yes, and you don’t want to date anyone else but her, then you are ready for the next step. Tell her you’re not into games anymore and are prepared to be in…

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