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Have you ever asked, “Why do I miss my ex?” This post will help you navigate the process of breakup and longing for a past relationship that was never meant to last.
It all started with deep personal questions and scrambled your brains to think of interesting things to talk about. It all went smoothly. Your romantic relationship blossomed… until you decided to call it quits. As a healthy relationship expert featured in UpJourney and Shondaland, I have also gone through good and bad relationships. Tending a broken heart is no joke, but it’s all part of the healing process.
Let’s move on with this one, shall we?
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Why Do I Miss My Ex? Is It Normal?
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It’s a normal thing to miss your ex-girlfriend. It could be because of several reasons. You might be feeling lonely, afraid of being alone, or unable to find a new person who will love you again.
It could also be because you came across something that painfully reminded you of your exes, like a restaurant you went to with your ex-girlfriend or a tagged photo of your previous relationship on your social media feed.
Miss your Ex vs. Miss Being in a Relationship: How To Differentiate
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Missing your ex and missing being in a romantic relationship are two different things. However, many people often confuse one with the other.
It could be tempting to enter into a new relationship for all the wrong reasons. That is why it is important to distinguish the difference between the two. These questions to ask yourself can help spare you from another painful breakup.
Here are important and life-changing questions to think about before you welcome love back into your arms:
Question #1: How does it feel to be in contact with your ex?
Not everyone might have pleasant memories with their ex. Seeing your ex after a long time could be awkward.
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Question #2: Do you feel comfortable flirting with other people?
The pain of your recent breakup might still be fresh, and dating is the last thing on your mind. You don’t need to rush – love can wait and will come at the right time.
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Question #3: Have you imagined being in a romantic relationship with someone else?
Feelings do not easily fade…
