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In this article, I’ll go through simple steps on how to text your crush. Struggling to know how to text your crush without being boring shouldn’t stop you from finding the right things to talk about with your crush.
There are millions of readers annually here on Mantelligence that have read my blogs answering the question “what should I talk about with my crush?”, so you’ve come to the right article for advice on how to talk to your crush.
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How to Text Your Crush Without Being Boring
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Following some simple steps in learning how to text your crush without being boring makes it less nerve-wracking to think of the right questions and topics. The key here is to take it one text at a time and not overthink your first message.
Once that first message is out of the gate, it becomes a whole lot easier to converse via texting without it seeming forced. Instead, the conversation will flow naturally and make for a more meaningful texting experience. You can also check out these ideas on what to text a girl for more ideas.
Here are 9 steps to follow when texting your crush.
Step #1: Send a simple and casual message
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Starting a texting conversation with your crush may seem like a difficult undertaking at the first stage. However, it’s crucial to remember that immediately texting heavy or deep things can overwhelm them and dissuade them from replying to you.
The first message to your crush should be a lighthearted and simple conversation starter. Don’t go over the top with a long message right off the bat. Instead, send a simple “Hello :)” or “Hey, what’s up!” to get the conversation started.
By doing this, you are allowing your crush to feel comfortable with your messages which builds a natural foundation for the conversations via texting.
Step #2: Make her talk about herself- family, hobbies, dreams
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Once the two of you feel more comfortable communicating via texting, you can move to get to know them more by asking questions about her. The key here is to make sure your questions are open-ended so that she can elaborate on her answers.
For example, rather than simply asking, “What school do you go to?” You could ask, “What’s your favorite thing about your school?”
Not only does this give her…
